“Being in love never goes out of style”
One of the greatest urban myths about marriage is that it “takes two” to make your marriage work. Don’t believe it for a second! That myth has destroyed far too many marriages. Don’t let it kill yours!
This logic applies to dancing, business deals, and other activities, but simply does not apply to marriage.
Marriage is different. Marriage is not a give and take relationship, and was never designed to work like other relationships.
When you understand marriage scientifically, you realize it only takes one determined spouse to make your marriage happy and healthy. This doesn’t mean that one person becomes an abuser or abusee. It means you understand the principles of marriage and can use them effectively.
All other relationships require constant cooperation, and an equal or fair level of effort from everyone involved. That’s what makes them work. They are based on what you have to give and what you get in return. But not marriage. Marriage is not a “give and take” relationship.
Even though it may appear like other relationships in some respects, marriage is different.
It didn’t take Sean and I long to know that a destination wedding in Bermuda was exactly what we wanted. After a visit to Bermuda in September 2010 and meeting with Bermuda Bride we knew two things – 1. We were getting married at Astwood Park and 2. We were hiring Bermuda Bride! Bermuda Bride (Nikki) went above and beyond our expectations. We had a fairly simple wedding plan in mind but if anyone has ever planned a wedding before you know there is no such thing as simple! Nikki made planning and coordinating all of our wedding details from a distance a breeze. She made us feel like our wedding was as important to her as her own would be and the day of execution was…